Relationship Tonic

Relationship is suppose to be a thing of joy but the reality today is that most people encounter heart breaks due to different factors, this factors  may arise from many sources, but for this blog post , I will be concentrating on break in communication.

Break in communication; This is one of the major causes of  divorce and subsequently physical abuse ,this begins to happen when one of the parties involve starts refusing to give a listening ear to the other partner. Research shows that in most cases 80% of men always thinks they are always right whenever there is a misunderstanding amongs the two parties , hences leading to exchange of words , followed by physical torture and abuses. The problems that arises from breakdown in communication can be avoided or minimized if only both parties follow the following tips

1. Be quick to listen and slow to speak; this will enable you understand the substance of the matter.

2. Shouting on your spouse, wife or girl friend as well as vice visa can never resolve any issue rather it complicates it. So we should try to keep our voice down even when we are trying to pass our opinions or views to our partner.

3. Anger does not resolve anything rather, it makes it worse. It is observed that when you are clouded by anger , you will not be able to give your point from a reasonable point of view, so it is advisable to just walk away and make your point  later ,when you are more relaxed.

4. You have to be a good listener.

5. Do not allow a third party into your affairs with your partner,except it is necessary. Research shows that the major issues leading to breakups and divorce in most cases are just things that would have been resolved by both parties ,instead of involving neighbours and causing scandals.

6. Verify the authenticity of gossips before taking any unnecessary action. Gossip has broken many homes and relationships.

7. Sometimes , we are stalk with issues and we refuse to speak out to get quality advice until it consumes us. When you have something burning or  eating you  up in you mind , speak to someone and seek for advise instead of suffering in silence

8.  We  should communicate a partners fault  from the point of love, making them understand, you are only doing this to strengthen the bond between the two parties.

9. Practice forgiveness , for no one is perfect

10. Think deeply before considering a breakup or divorce. Ask yourself does it worth it? Will I find happiness? The consequence of my actions will it resolve to a positive or a negative outcome? The answers you get will give you direction.

11. Read books and learn from other people's experiences, because a tree cannot  make a forest and no man is an island of knowledge. Send me an email to shuaibu.friday007@gmail.com ,for more information on relationship.

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